Raising Children Without Breaking Them

Raising Children

What neuroscience, development, and emotional intelligence reveal about how children actually grow Between fear and performance pressure Parenting today often feels like standing between two loud and conflicting voices. One warns that ordinary mistakes are quietly damaging our children. The other insists that if we don’t optimize early enough—emotionally, cognitively, socially—we’ve already fallen behind. Caught … Read more

Mother’s Warmth as Ground

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Touch, Temperature, and the Awakening of the Inner World I came across this article in Neuroscience News that explores how temperature changes during something as simple as a hug can deepen body awareness and emotional attunement. What struck me immediately was how profoundly this connects to what we explore in The Enneagram World of the … Read more

Self-Respect and the Child’s Inner World

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Why Our Adult Struggles Begin in the First Years of Life A recent Forbes article argues that self-respect is the answer to most of our problems. The insight is compelling on the surface, but it becomes far more profound when we trace our adult struggles back to the earliest experiences of being seen, held, mirrored, … Read more