The Enneagram’s Ceiling Problem

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Why Personality Insight Alone Eventually Stops Working Seeing More Without Being More The Enneagram of Personality Types is remarkably effective at revealing patterns. It points to how identity forms, how defenses organize, and how suffering is maintained. For many, this brings real relief and real change. But for those who stay with the work, a … Read more

1955 Superego and Parenting

What was happening inside me at five years old? My parents didn’t know about the superego, or how fear, anger, and shame were already shaping my inner world. They couldn’t see the lasting impact this would have on my developing sense of self. The Enneagram World of the Child: Nurturing Resiliency and Self-Compassion in Early … Read more

Born Connected

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What Newborn Brains Teach Us About Parenting Science is catching up with what parents have always known: babies are born ready for love. A recent study in Nature Communications examined the “social perception pathway” in newborn brains—a circuit responsible for recognizing faces, following gaze, and attuning to voices. What researchers found is striking: this pathway … Read more