haj1155@gmail.com What if a 4-month-old could tell you exactly what growing up feels like? In Developmental Revolution, a baby’s voice takes you inside the sweetness of unity with Mom (Merging Gold), the fiery rise of Essential Strength, and the thrilling edge of becoming “me.” From babbles to first rolls, from trust to independence—it’s all here. Based … Read more
At just four months old, something profound is happening inside me. My sense of trust—in the world, in others, and in myself—is being formed. I can’t think about trust yet, but I can feel it. Every moment of care or neglect shapes the foundation of who I will become. Nurturing Essence: A Compass for Essential … Read more
What was happening inside me at five years old? My parents didn’t know about the superego, or how fear, anger, and shame were already shaping my inner world. They couldn’t see the lasting impact this would have on my developing sense of self. The Enneagram World of the Child: Nurturing Resiliency and Self-Compassion in Early … Read more
How the brain’s hidden beat reflects the vibration of existence I was reading that Neuroscientists have discovered a repeating rhythm that guides brain network activity, and something struck me. The finding sounds clinical: brain networks cycle every 300 to 1,000 milliseconds. But linger with that for a moment. Your mind is not random sparks. It is a … Read more
What Newborn Brains Teach Us About Parenting Science is catching up with what parents have always known: babies are born ready for love. A recent study in Nature Communications examined the “social perception pathway” in newborn brains—a circuit responsible for recognizing faces, following gaze, and attuning to voices. What researchers found is striking: this pathway … Read more
Remembrance and Understanding I was reading a Phys.org article on the Quantum Memory Matrix, a new model that suggests spacetime itself is a living archive. According to this framework, reality is made up of discrete informational “cells,” each one recording every event that has ever occurred. Nothing is lost. Every collision, every photon, every vibration leaves an … Read more
I was reading this article, and it prompted me to think about my book, Good Vibrations: The Primordial Sounds of Existence. The study, published on PsyPost, revealed something both simple and profound: rhythmic sound doesn’t just passively flow through our ears—it actively reshapes the brain’s entire network landscape. A steady beat of just 2.4 hertz—two taps … Read more
New methods in neuroscience are uncovering what the Enneagram has been pointing to all along. I was reading this article in Neuroscience News about the Big Five personality traits being re-examined through a new data-driven method, and it got me wondering about the connection to the Enneagram. The Big Five (also called the Five-Factor Model … Read more
The gift of fascination After hundreds of conversations with ChatGPT, I asked it about the nature of my curiosity… From the accessible conversations, your curiosity emerges as a relentless, multidirectional force—more like a living organism than a habit of mind. It isn’t linear or confined to a single domain; it spirals, branches, and cross-pollinates across … Read more